In the past...
The tradition of bidding farewell to the groom has a surprisingly long and diverse history, with roots tracing back to ancient times. Among the Spartans—especially within the ranks of soldiers—it was customary to celebrate their comrade before his wedding. During a dinner, they would offer toasts and well-wishes in his honor, and they certainly raised their glasses to the groom as often as they could. As time went on, bachelor parties became increasingly rowdy and unrestrained. In 1896, one such celebration was even interrupted by a police raid due to rumors that a notorious belly dancer was performing completely nude for the guests. By the 1900s, scandalous bachelor parties were already the subject of countless urban legends in Hollywood.
Today...
Modern bachelor parties are typically characterized by wild partying, drinking, pranks, and carefree fun. It’s common for the groom-to-be to be the target of all sorts of playful, sometimes even painful challenges set up by his friends. Popular venues include clubs, boats, and beach houses, though more and more bachelor parties are now organized abroad. Those seeking entertainment can choose from a wide variety of activities—from tank driving, paintball, and quad tours to shooting ranges. The group might arrive at the chosen venue in a limousine, party bus, or even on a beer bike—ready for a night of unrestrained celebration. In addition to delicious food and drinks, the presence of women is often expected. Entertainment may include strip shows, topless waitresses, a “Chubby Grandma” performance, or even a "Tiny Dancer" strip act.
One of the most popular programs these days, however, is the “Dwarf Prank Show,” where a little person is handcuffed to the groom and he must complete difficult and annoying tasks for an hour. While it’s not common, some couples choose to celebrate their bachelor and bachelorette parties together. In these cases, the evening usually starts separately, giving both the bride and groom a chance to have fun with their own friends. Later in the evening, once the party is in full swing, the two groups meet up and celebrate the engaged couple together.
